everyone says setting goals is a great thing, that you should set them and reach high. but for me goals are only disappointments and heart breakers. as far as having babies goes anyway. multiple times i've made the mistake of making goals such as i want to have a kid before this or before i turn___. and each time it breaks my heart that i pass these mile markers still childless. it only makes it all the more depressing not to meet those "goals".... so the point, if you are venturing into the world of trying don't set goals or time limits for yourself just let it happen at its own pace, because frankly u dont have control anyway.
i have passed all the goals i had set for myself, and acknowledge that. i actually feel relief now not worrying about time limits and different ages ive missed. right now we are relaxing and taking it one day at a time. it feels nice.
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